After 80 years, the general manager volunteered for the elderly to feed their feet and claimed to be happy

A “80s” general manager went to the Haikou Zhendong Mipu old apartment every weekend as a volunteer to feed the elderly, wash their feet, and chat with the elderly.

"I feel very happy to serve the old people."

For elderly people who have nothing to do with their own meals, feet, massages, manicures, and chatting with the elderly... Every weekend, in the Haikou City, Zhendong Mipu old apartment can see such a busy figure, he is Dong Ming is the general manager of Hainan Morro Technology Co., Ltd. After the 80s, Dong Ming has been volunteering here for more than half a year. No matter how tiring or no matter how important the entertainment, Dong Ming will arrive at the old apartment on weekends to accompany these lonely old people. He is with his colleagues on Saturdays and Sundays together with his wife. The old people here regard Dong Ming as their loved one, and Dong Ming and his wife postponed the plan for childbirth for the elderly here.

Pushing out all the entertainment on weekends

When the reporter saw Dong Ming, he was giving her a massage while she was in her senior apartment and she was in her 90s. "These days Yela's arm hurts a lot. I'll press her and it may be better," Dong Ming said with a smile. Mrs. Ye showed a happy smile and put up her thumb to praise Dong Ming's massage. “Because we often have to help the elderly massage, we specially learned some massage techniques. Learning this thing is not easy for me this Northeast man, but now it is good to send a great use.” Dong Ming is a Northeast man He will speak a little Hainanese, but this does not affect his communication with every old man here. He said that laughter is a good language of communication. Even if the language is unreasonable, just sit quietly beside the old man and be a loyal listener to the old people. He is also happy for the elderly in the apartment, because they are lonely and need it. It was accompanied by someone.

"Xiao Dong, I'm very happy to see you. I want to listen to the radio. You think of ways to help me pull the wires." Just as the reporter wanted to interview Dong Ming, an aunt wearing a helmet ran to tell Dong Ming. "Agong, don't worry, I'll do it for you tomorrow. Agong, are you all right? You'll sit here first, eh." Ah-Jung Yang, because the head had been injured and there was a depression, so wear it. With a helmet. When Yang Yagong sat down, he began to keep talking. "He is willing to come to an old apartment. The old man knows better, and his mentality is particularly good. This is an active old man here." Dong Ming said, "I'm familiar with the situation of every old person here. They all know me, last week." There was an old man who passed away. I was very sad when I was here.” There are more than 140 old people living in Mipu old apartment. Most of them are lonely old people. The long-time loneliness makes the old people somewhat closed, and many elderly people cannot live on their own. People need help. Dong Ming is busy every weekend.

For many young people, weekends are either carnival or cats sleep at home. Dong Ming devoted his own weekend to the old people in the apartment. Many people did not understand Dong Ming’s approach. Dong Ming said: "I am very happy to provide services for elderly people in old apartment buildings." As the company's general manager, the business is naturally very busy, and there is a lot of entertainment on the weekends. Since joining with the old people here, every weekend he will give up all his work and all his socializing. Dong Ming frankly stated: “Put out some entertainment will certainly lose some friends, and even affect the company's business, but I think the elderly here need me! I do not regret it, the company’s chairman, Li Weidong, also knows that they also support it. I volunteer and try not to arrange work and entertainment for me on weekends."

The couple are volunteers and have repeatedly delayed their child-bearing plans

“Hello!” said an old man who saw Dong Ming raising his right hand high and saying hello. Dong Ming immediately handed out a cigarette from his pocket and handed it to him. After the old man took the cigarette, he smiled like a child. "He is nicknamed 'Smoke God'. See anyone who says hello this way, find someone to smoke, especially funny, huh, huh!" said Dong Ming. Many of the elderly people here are eccentric in character. They have autism, love and hate, and they will beat people. Dong Ming will think of ways to make them happy. As long as Dong Ming is living, elderly apartments will be full of laughter and laughter. For a long time, the old people like Dong Ming. Anything in his heart is willing to tell him.

When Grandma Liu in her 70s first arrived at the nursing home, she was mentally difficult to accept a new life. She often stayed alone in a corner and was unwilling to contact with others. Careful Dong Ming discovered the strangeness of Liu's grandmother. After understanding Liu's grandmother's situation, he always went to the elderly apartment. He specifically intended to accompany Liu's grandmother. At first, Grandma Liu was very cool to him. Dong Ming told some interesting stories to tell her about children. Liu grandmother slowly opened his voice. Dong Ming also often helps Grandma Liu to clean, wash feet, manicure, and clean up the house. Liu grandmother once shed tears moving and said Dong Ming was better for her than her parents.

“You come here every weekend to accompany these grandfather grandmothers, not to accompany your family, will your family have opinions?” asked the reporter. "I will not, I can insist on volunteering here. In fact, it is influenced by my wife. Every Sunday I come here with my wife. Today is Saturday, I came with the company's employees. I His wife is engaged in the work of the Internet and is usually very busy and hard working. However, it is an agreement that we have not changed our service for elderly people over the weekend.” Dong Ming said.

Dong Ming told reporters that one year ago, after seeing a news about the “empty nest” elderly on the Internet, his wife asked him to think about volunteering. The object of love is the widowed old man. This idea immediately received the support of Dong Ming. At the beginning, they used the media to find elderly people in need of help. On weekends, he and his wife took some nutritional supplements to visit the villages in some villages around Haikou and talk with them. He found that this kind of care, but it can bring happiness and happiness to the elderly, he is also very fulfilling. Since then, he and his wife have agreed to do volunteer work every weekend. Six months ago, by chance, they came to volunteers at the Mito House in Zhendong, Haikou City. They found that there lived many elderly people who had no loved ones and were very lonely. Some old people couldn't take care of themselves. So he and his wife agreed that every weekend to come here to accompany these old people, and formed a bond with them.

Because the husband and wife are usually busy working and volunteering on weekends, the plan for childbirth has been delayed. “We have all reached the age of having children. So every time a family member calls, the first sentence to ask is when to have a child. I had to write a variety of reasons to suffocate the past.” Dong Ming said that he and his wife After consultations, they are still young. They want to do more meaningful things, and childbirth is delayed. They want to work harder and through their own actions to bring more people into the volunteer team.

Intended to build a "volunteer QQ group"

In fact, the kind actions of Dong Ming and his wife are gradually affecting the people around them. Mr. Li Weidong, the chairman of Dong Ming’s company, and his staff all joined volunteer teams. Every Saturday, Dong Minghe company's employees will come to the old apartment, help the apartment to move the bed, cleaning, repairing water and electricity; feeding the elderly, feet, massage, manicure, chat with the elderly ... ... in the elderly apartment Every staff member has Dong Ming’s mobile phone number. He can call him whenever he needs to. He will do his best to serve the elderly.

"Agong, slow down, be careful not to gnaw on it!" Every morning at 11:30 am, old people begin to have lunch. Because the weather was hot in recent days, the old man's apartment porridge to old people. Dong Ming came to a bowl of porridge and took a small spoonful and blown it with his mouth. Then he carefully sent it to an Agong's mouth. His movements were very familiar. Dong Ming, who looked somewhat rough, took care of the old man but was delicate. The old lady who sat aside was envious, and she wanted to feed Dong Ming. At this time, Dong Ming’s colleague Feng Xiurong walked over to her grandmother with a porridge and said, “My grandmother, let me feed you!” The grandmother calmed down. Feng Xiurong ate the porridge to her grandmother while eating, and she was happily eating with her parents. Although Feng Xiurong did not have a long time as a voluntary worker, she came to the old apartment many times. Feng Xiurong's family had a father lying in bed needing her care. On Saturday she would settle her father and then come here with her colleagues to take care of the elderly.

With the launch of Dong Ming, all employees of the company joined the volunteer team. Under normal circumstances, they come here every Saturday to serve the elderly. In peacetime, some employees who are free will bring some fruits and other items to visit the old people here. Last Saturday, the chairman of the company, Li Weidong, came to the old apartment to visit the old people. Li Weidong hopes that the company's employees will continue to provide love and service for the elderly.

In addition to colleagues, some of Dong Ming’s friends also joined volunteer teams. One of his friends who had staged a performance called him shortly before, and he wanted to organize the actors to perform for the elderly in the old apartment. This made Dong Ming very touched. He thought it was very meaningful to do such a thing. Dong Ming plans to build a “volunteer QQ group” in the next step and organize more people to work with him as volunteers and give love.

I look forward to the happiness of all the widows

“Actually, the elderly are similar to children in many aspects. People need to pay attention to them and speak with them. If someone is holding them, they will be very happy.” This is the deep understanding that Dong Ming had with the old people in the apartment. In the process of volunteering, Dong Ming was happy and moved, but at the same time he was angry at some unfilial children. “Actually, some elderly people living in elderly apartments have children. They all come here because their children work outside and no one takes care of them. Filial children often come to visit them in the apartment or they often call to care about them. But there are also some. The children of the old people are indifferent to the old people. They are very indifferent. I think such children are too inconvenient.” After finishing, Dong Ming pointed to a reporter in her 90s who told reporters: “This lady is particularly pathetic, just now. Her son and daughter-in-law came to see her. The son talked to her and lost a bag of things. The old man looked at his son's back and his eyes were red, and his wife stood outside the apartment for a while. I do not even enter the door. I saw this kind of situation really angry!” Dong Ming said angrily.

Dong Ming told reporters that people always have a day to go. Treating the elderly is treating them kindly. He hopes that all the widowed old people will be able to depend on the evening scene to be happy.

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