The media is concerned about the "sandwich layer" of the middle-aged

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The "disloyal person" must be compassionate and compassionate

Youth Day has passed and Children’s Day is approaching. There is still the old man's Chung Yeung Festival. Middle-aged people, "sandwich layer", the backbone of society, since no special holiday. But there is no reminder of the sign day, does not mean that this group has no predicament. Sometimes, for some people, it is even almost desperate.

A recent report in the "Guangzhou Daily" revealed some of the pain in the hearts of middle-aged people. “They are 50 years old. For over 20 years, they have lived happily with their only children. While they were happy to buy new homes and prepare for dowry for their children, an accident took the children’s young lives. This is caught in the pain that ordinary people can't imagine: when they are too old, they have no chance to give birth again. In order to avoid touching the scene, they have to hide from their relatives to avoid friends; but the voice of their children is almost always there. Heads, this always leaves them with tears. They call themselves 'lost ones', how can they spend the rest of their lives coveting them?"

There is no need to establish a sign day for the “exclusive” person, but it is necessary to remind that there must be a deep concern for compassion for this particular group of people. From the standpoint of human nature, the blocking of blood is a great sadness. Of course, as the same kind, it should be given insight and sympathy; even more realistically, these middle-aged people use their fate to bear the long-term effects of a basic social policy.

"Absence of independence" as an individual risk and family risk of human reproduction has always existed and cannot be avoided. While our social policy has effectively controlled the population problem, it has also objectively exacerbated this risk, or increased the number of people who may bear this risk. Therefore, lack of independence in China is not only a personal problem, it should also be regarded as a social issue.

The data estimated in this report can be astonishing: China currently has at least 7.6 million child deaths between 15 and 30 years old each year. This brings about 76,000 unemployed families each year. The number of unemployed people over the age of 50 is growing.

The reporter wrote: How many of the country's disempowered families are like this? There are no detailed statistics yet... The total population of Taicang City, Jiangsu Province, where the interviewee “Original” is located is 717,200. After “strange” understanding, the city has a total of 115 families with the same circumstances. If Taicang City is used as a national sample, the number of families who have lost only one child in the country will surely exceed one million.

Well, this is more than a million of pain. And this kind of intense pain is a kind of "painful pain." The reporter interviewed more than 40 middle-aged parents who had lost their independence during the May Day holidays through networking. They said that we are two-faced people and always look strong before others, but when we come back home, we close our eyes late at night and weep silently. Only the same fate makes us willing to show our hearts. Only by facing these brothers and sisters can we pour without impunity.

The confession of these exemplifiers is sad to read. They claim to be mentally disabled and cannot be cured in this life.

The vast majority of such hidden hearts may not be opened to society. However, our society cannot ignore the existence of these pains. If we say that such a social policy is a necessary choice for a big country to meet the challenge of modernity, then as time progresses, an increasingly modern society should also increasingly show its civilization. Public psychologies should gradually form a corresponding awareness, and public policies should make corresponding arrangements in order to sympathize with the occult people.

As mentioned earlier, lack of independence is manifested as a social issue. Therefore, it must be made clear that this compassionateness is not a kind of grant, but it is a necessary social "relief."

This report also provides a possible approach to social relief. The owner of the online name “Shen Ying” started to establish the QQ group of the national group of missing persons three years ago. Nowadays, the QQ group has changed from one to three and has more than 1,000 members. "Shadow Shadow" said that the common aspiration of the group members is to establish a nursing home that belongs to the group of people who have lost their independence. Because only those who are left alone are left alone, their hearts have no grudge and can help each other.

It is also a tragic confession: “The elderly in other nursing homes have children. When they are admitted to the hospital, they sign their children as guardians of the elderly. Children often visit the elderly. When we enter nursing homes, we encounter formalities. Problems; on the other hand, we can't stand emotionally when we see other people's children coming to see their parents."

This nursing home is looking forward to. The benign arrangement is that the pilot funded the establishment of such nursing homes through public finances, or encourage private funded establishments, and the government should provide funding. When these extremists use their fate to bear the influence of social policies, it is legitimate to use public finances for relief.

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